Life is full of hardships….we try to fight through it.
Sometimes we win and sometimes we loose…..but there is a slump in everyone’s
life when nothing is going right….and we start to loose all hope………
If this continues for a long period of time…….everyone who
has made something of themselves tries to help us and tries to motivate us…….I
know there are many motivational and self help books available in the market,
but we are able to connect to the person we know more that the book….so we tend
to listen to them more……
Now if the person is already down and trying to hold onto
the last hopes he has and if someone starts with negative motivation with this
person…well it is devastating. I am not saying that negative motivation does
not work, but there is a time for that, but not when someone is already down…….you
are not helping that person but pushing him down further…….
What this person needs is hope, we should show him the good
in everything…..it happens that when we are down we tend to forget all the
great things we have done…..it happens……positive motivation make a very good
and strong mark….the effect is a long lasting and very productive…….
So, please think do we need positive or negative motivation……………………………….
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